When we tell ourselves that we will fail, failure is likely to result. When we tell self that we are going to make a mistake, a mistake will probably be made. When we tell self that we cannot do something, it is unlikely we will ever be able to perform. "Whether you believe you can…
Survey Update
Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to fill out the survey I am conducting on Confidence. Your participation is greatly appreciated! As many of you have showed interest in learning the results I will post them once the study is completed. If you have not filled out the survey I would love…
Simply Begin
At times the most difficult aspect in performing a task, goal, or project is the simple act of beginning. Once we make time for the particular task, gather the supplies, and perform the first step it is easy to continue. Beginning something can be extremely difficult. For one reason or another we put off starting…
Making a Plan
It is hard to believe we are already well into April. It feels like January first was just the other day and yet here it is April twelfth. Time ticks by whether or not we are working toward our goals. Before we know it the end of December will arrive and we will once again…
Attention Arrested
Have you ever met someone only to feel a like or a connection right away? One who caught your attention and caused you to desire the ability to spend more time in conversation? This past Saturday I was at a friends baby shower and met her husband's Grandmother for the first time. Immediately her character…
A Survey
Confidence is an important and needed aspect when setting out to reach goals and experience success. Without it we often hold ourselves back from the very things we desire most. I am performing research in the area of confidence and would love it if you would take a few minutes to fill out this survey.…
Confidence: Facing Our Fears
Too often confidence is an area lacking in many individuals lives (my own included). Even those who appear arrogant and prideful are often masking their lack of confidence. Why is confidence a rarity? Fear is a frequent factor. Fear of not being a great parent, thinking you will never meet Mr. or Mrs. Right, not…
Melanie Fellman Writes 