When we tell ourselves that we will fail, failure is likely to result. When we tell self that we are going to make a mistake, a mistake will probably be made. When we tell self that we cannot do something, it is unlikely we will ever be able to perform. "Whether you believe you can…
Making a Plan
It is hard to believe we are already well into April. It feels like January first was just the other day and yet here it is April twelfth. Time ticks by whether or not we are working toward our goals. Before we know it the end of December will arrive and we will once again…
A Survey
Confidence is an important and needed aspect when setting out to reach goals and experience success. Without it we often hold ourselves back from the very things we desire most. I am performing research in the area of confidence and would love it if you would take a few minutes to fill out this survey.…
Creating Habits One Micro Decision at a Time
Have you ever struggled with starting a new habit be it exercise, changing your way of eating, writing consistently, accomplishing dreaded tasks first thing in the morning, or, becoming organized? Starting a new habit can be difficult, not necessarily a physical difficulty but a mental one. Whether we forget about the habit till already in…
Daily Habits: What Do They Say About You?
Our daily habits make up who we are today and form who we will become tomorrow. Habits make us who we are often without us realizing the extent. From what we do when first getting up in the morning, how often we brush our teeth, the speed we drive, the food we eat, books…
Persistence
When reaching toward a goal, achievement, or prize it can be easy to become discouraged You get to a point where it seems nothing will ever be achieved, goals will never be met, success is merely a dream. At times you may feel you are wasting your time putting forth a great deal of effort…
It is Too Soon to Quit
This past week at church we celebrated our 37th year anniversary. The last message of the week was on the topic "It is Too Soon to Quit" as a church and in our own personal Christian walk. The truth is, it is too soon to quit for every aspect of life. It is too soon…
Melanie Fellman Writes 